Pegging Positions

So we’ve talked about the what and the why of pegging in this blog, but not really the “how.” If you’re new to pegging, then there are a few things that you should probably know!

First off, the anal basics. If you aren’t familiar with having anal sex, then there are a few things you should be aware of. First of all, cleanliness usually isn’t an issue for anal, but if you’re irregular or have a bowel movement imminent, you want to avoid anything going up your rear more than a little bit. It’s perhaps a bit counterintuitive, but the best time for anal is actually right after emptying your bowels. Of course, it doesn’t hurt to bathe right before, too!

Rule #2: Lube! Lube is super important for any anal sex, especially for “beginners.” If this is his first time being pegged, you’ll want to use a lot of lube! This will help ensure the experience is comfortable and mostly painless – and thus more pleasurable. Even if part of the fantasy is a little bit of pain, lube is still important to prevent injury!

Now, as for positions. There are two standard positions for pegging. One is doggy style, with the male on his knees bending forward. This one can be tricky for couples who are mismatched in height, but with a little creative placement of pillows it should be workable. The other good position is missionary, and this one is really preferable to a lot of people. In this position, the man lays on his back and lifts up his rear end and legs to allow penetration. In this position, it’s much easier for the woman to also stimulate the male’s penis and balls with her hands or even her mouth. Alternately, this position also makes it easier for the male to masturbate himself.

There are certainly other positions to explore, but those are the two main ones. Have fun!