Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Why Pegging?

Some people look at the act of pegging and can’t see past the purely physical element of it. To them, it looks like it wouldn’t really be pleasurable to either party. The woman isn’t really being stimulated at all, and for a lot of straight men anal sex sounds more painful than anything else. So what is there to really gain from pegging?

Even just from a purely physical standpoint, there’s plenty to love about pegging. Since the practice has become more popular over the past several years, more strapons are being developed specifically with pegging in mind. As such, they are built to provide some stimulation for the woman, as well. This can be things like a clit vibrator or even a double-sided dildo that penetrates the woman as she penetrates the man.

From the male perspective, pegging can be pleasurable. The anus is erogenous zone, whether men like to admit this or not. Ironically, a lot of men are intrigued by being the giving partner in an anal sex situation, but the idea of receiving totally turns them off. If anal sex is really all that bad, guys, why do you want to put your partner through it!? Fortunately, anal isn’t as uncomfortable or painful or gross as popular opinion seems to think it is.

In fact, men have a sort of “g-spot” that is located near their rectal cavity. This is called the prostate, and anal penetration is the best way to stimulate it, and that’s what pegging is all about!

Beyond the pure physical aspects of pegging, there’s a lot to be gained on a mental and emotional level. Men are used to being the ones who are in control and the giving partners, while women are passive and receiving. Pegging allows for some role reversal – the woman gets to control the flow of the action and the man becomes the passive receiver. It can be mentally stimulating and exciting for both partners to experience this role switch!

Next time: the big question – is pegging gay?

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