On the grand scale of kinks, pegging is reasonably high up on the list. It takes anal sex, which is already pretty taboo for some folks, and adds a whole new dimension to it. So if you’re the kind of person – male or female – who is interested in pegging, you may have a hard time finding a willing partner to indulge you. If you want to bring up the idea of pegging to your partner, or you have and were shot down, here are some ideas to help you convince them.
For Women:
The Trade: Tell your guy that you’ll let him have your ass if you can take this. Obviously this doesn’t really work if he’s not into anal or if it’s something you do a lot anyway.
Start Small: During your normal sexual adventures, start gently exploring around his anus. Don’t go inside yet – just rub around the outside. In most cases, he’ll enjoy it, and if he does you can keep pushing boundaries until you’re getting a whole finger or two up there. At that point, you might as well be pegging him!
Play the Domme: A lot of men have a fantasy about dominant women. Play the role (a kinky outfit and some sexy heels or boots will help) and see how he responds. Tie him to the bed and tease him with the idea of pegging, see if he responds better to it when in this context.
For Men:
Reassurance: Reassure her that this isn’t a “gay” thing and that you wanting her to peg you doesn’t mean that you don’t still enjoy your normal sexual routine. It’s just a little spice.
Explore Anal: Ask her if she minds if you use a butt plug or prostate massage toy while you have sex with her. When she sees just how much you love the anal stimulation, she might come around and want to be the one who delivers that pleasure.
Let Her Take Control: Tell her that pegging allows her to be the one in total control. Some women aren’t really into that idea, but some of them will jump at it in a second!
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